I will always remember you on your wedding day, just before the taking of your vows. You, in a white suit, and Jenny, such a beautiful bride. Your buddy Chard, ready to officiate. Even the foliage began dancing behind you, and I won't forget your smile that day, how well-behaved your hair.
The sun, that you so richly deserved, shone upon you that day. And now, that you have led the way for the rest of us to heaven, I thank you for the blessing that was your life. It would take forever to count your acts of kindness, generosity and for your words, unlike the words of any other mortal. And perhaps, dear Tom, that was because your words were touched with "intimations of immortality."
So how can I thank you, Tom? Maybe by reciting A Poem of Thanks, that you wrote, that I now address to you, Tom, one of God's particles in the world:
Poem of Thanks
Lord Whoever, thank you for this air
I'm about to in- and exhale, this hutch
in the woods, the wood for fire,
the light—both lamp and the natural stuff
off leaf-back, fern, and wing.
For the piano, the shovel
for ashes, the moth-gnawed
blankets, the stone-cold water
stone-cold, thank you.
Thank you, Lord, coming for
to carry me here-where I'll gnash
it out, Lord, where I'll calm
and work, Lord, thank you
for the goddamn birds singing!
With our love,
Miles and Mimi
March 12, 2017